Jeez, look at the tiny tiny hips and tiny tiny waist on 1 compared to her chest size. How can that be? Oh my..
Or she was 60% attracted to you, then she found someone she's 80% attracted to..
But date, get out there, have lots of fun!.
You are an active member here at LS, you know the answer to that..
I'm not surprised with your enlightening answer of "because thats the way it is" to my original post considering you think of yourself as an alpha male..
i'm still unclear about how long is considered 'acceptable' to have sex. i know everyone differs but there is probably some sort of cultural norm. 3 dates? 5 dates? since i almost feel ready to have sex with him i'll basically be waiting in order to benefit our relationship, so i can't really use my own desire as a measure of when to give it up..
And its just silly to assume that just because you look at a person and think them mediocre that their mate thinks the same thing, of course you should find someone you think is wonderful, but there is more to wonderful than a pretty face and a hot body..
a well tended little body.
Similar logic as to why would you lie about it being “a one time thing” will apply if you tell him now prior to him later finding out, in that if you were going to lie, why would you tell him at all. If he finds out later after you trick him into marriage (he will look at it this way), he will have good reason not to believe a word that you say, and he will never believe that it was only one time. He will view the whole the other man (OM) was just a friend thing as just a lie to allow you to spend time with your affair partner. If you are at all in contact with the OM after you cheated with the OM, your fiancй will believe that you did not tell about the cheating because you wanted to keep the OM in play..
Trust me my man...you don't want to marry her. You will regret it..
I always always confirm a few hours for anything - even doctors appointments that were confirmed the day beofre. So, I certainly do the same for a social engagement. It isnt because Im paranoid, its becsause I know shyte happens and I will not waste my own time..
Look at something silly- The internet is filled with.
She is going to do what she is going to do. Unless you chain her to a radiator this is going to play out as she wills. If you chain her to a radiator, she'll accuse you of emotional blackmail. I've no doubt she's already blackening you, at least in her f-ed up inner monologue..