Personally, it would not bother me how someone scratches their nose..
Meet Tim. He is a great guy. But he has been burned before. So he is mostly looking for casual encounters. He is my best friend excellent lover. father of my kids. And ex husband. I want to help..
complaints have been limited on the HP..when someone does the comment is flagged and removed..we have a comment page to discuss things..read what DU says about some members uploads it could help yours.
I would suggest that even though you feel that it would be difficult, you should cut your losses and get out. i wouldn't say don't be his friend at all, if he is not making you feel that you are in any immediate danger and he is willing to let you go. in fact, if it is safe, it may help his progress if you are a caring friend (p.s. don't get back with him just because he agrees to see a counselor). i just mean that if you flat leave him, he may never seek help with his issues and he is just going to find another woman who will take enough crap to let him create the same situation..